Something happened to me while Kristen and I watched the 2013 Grammy Awards. I’d been sitting on my couch, watching the show while scanning tweets on my iPhone. I’d occasionally chuckle at the various sarcastic, heckling tweets aimed at the Grammy performers and award winners. Sometimes I’d respond, or “star” a tweet that was particularly funny, or offer up my own witticism. I should add that most of these snarky tweets were authored by pastors and worship leaders I follow on Twitter.

This had been my award show pattern for at least a couple years. But then, about an hour into the viewing, the thought hit me, “I feel mean.”

And irritated. And bitter.

Since then, I haven’t watched as many award shows. But when I watch them, or when I watch any big pop-culture event that the whole world seems to be watching, I do the opposite of what I’ve done before. I put my phone down. I refrain from checking social media for the entire night.

Isn’t social media supposed to connect us though? Isn’t it a great thing to converse, in real time, with people all around the world while you’re all watching a show?

It can be, I suppose. But I plead with everyone who names the name of Christ to check your heart. Maybe you don’t have a problem. But I think a lot of you do — many of you, at least, who are among the 2700 I follow on Twitter. What image are we projecting when we tweet snarky, passive aggressive statements about the lack of artistic merit in award winning songs, films, TV shows and more?

Criticism has its place, of course. But probably not in a medium that restricts your content to 140 characters. And the best criticism is rarely sarcastic. The best of anything is rarely sarcastic.

  • “Sarcasm is the lowest form of wit.” – Oscar Wilde
  • “Sarcasm is the last refuge of the imaginatively bankrupt.” — Cassandra Clare
  • “Essentially, sarcasm is a survival technique for the insecure. It’s used to make yourself appear to be stronger or better, but it’s not said with enough seriousness for anyone to accuse you of being a jerk.” – Tyler Huckabee

The Huckabee quote is from a helpful article called “Could We BE More Obsessed With Sarcasm?” Yes, he talks briefly about sarcasm in scripture. Read it — then decide if you should, at least sometimes, be a Twitter quitter.

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